Sunday, 07 February 2010
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Approaching Beautiful Chicks - Tips Deluxe.
Use these tips on how to approach women tonight when you
hit the town:
1: Fresh breath.
I don't care if you're Johnny
Depp, if your breath smells like rotten fish, girls will barely even speak to you. I highly recommend Mentos - Peppermint flavour. Chicks tell me I
smell great when I chew these. Different gum? Not nearly as much. I have no idea why
. Strangely it makes
them move closer to you, as if to get more of the smell. A great side-effect.
2: Impeccable grooming.
Trim your face, neck, back, pubic hair, shoulders or
anywhere else there are stubborn tufts. Shaving is an
option but trimming will do too.
It's the '10's now
and hair is not super-welcome these days.
3: Good posture.
You really need to look confident an manly
so get used to walking like an action hero such as Arnold Shwarzenegger.
Practising this
will also eliminate things like nervous ticks over time too. Practice this for 30 days and it will
feel totally natural.
Chicks
will definitely give you the eye more often too. It will actually make you
feel more confident because of the powerful brain-body connection. It's a strange but powerful process.
4: Make it a priority to become more social.
Try to get to the stage where you're talking to quite a few
girls every weekend.
This will
become much more effortless with some experience.
You'll start coming up with more things to say, you'll become more at ease
with the fear that arises and end up having a better time.
Enjoying yourself is the single most crucial element: Picking up chicks is meant to be really enjoyable. Some guys see it as a negotiation. It couldn't be more different.
5: Warm up correctly.
To succeed with women you've got to be in a relaxed,
social and easy-going mood. So, consider the
first 3 - 5 girls of the night as warm-ups. That's all.
No pressure to get a number, get attraction, nothing.
It's just like stretching before a run.
You don't want to beat your record on the warm-up lap are
you? Obviously not.
It's ridiculous. The starter chicks
hardly ever work out anyway so don't concern yourself. It's a process and you need to trust it. Your mouth,
and mind get cold just like muscles. Don't believe me?
Ever had to speak to someone on the phone when you're half asleep? It's totally
impossible. Your mind is just the same when you get to the bar. Don't fight it, just accept it.
6: Wearing good clothes.
Chicks will place you in a neat little
box when they first see you.
What are your clothes saying about you? Lots of dudes hate the fact that girls do
this. It's a pity! Little do they know how easy it is to
use to your advantage. Here's a trick: Go out and ask ten women what they think of when they see you. Their feedback will open your eyes. Take notes if you have to. There should be a general message in it all. All of the 'fashion' advice
they give is useless. What you want to do is, take what they say and just make it sexier. Copy a look from someone famous that you like. Find someone famous with a look that you like and will suit you and steal it outright. It's actually just as easy as that.
I hope this helps out.
More importantly, I hope you're gonna use it in some bars, clubs, parks or
bookstores. It takes a little effort to get it going but it's fun and
effective.
Try it. The ideas outlined here have made my life so fulfilled and I feel super-confident about
their effectiveness. Have
fun with your new knowledge of how to approach women!
Thursday, 28 January 2010
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How to Approach Women - The Best Way.
The art of how to approach women is
not rocket science. Seriously. It's actually just common sense.
However, most guys just ignore all common sense when hot women
are around. We
tend to turn into approval-seeking lapdogs very quickly.
This is very, very bad.
As an exercise, just pretend you're a
beautiful women for a minute:
Everywhere you go people are bending over backwards for you,
offering favours and basically just treating you as if you're super-special. Now imagine they haven't even exchanged a sentence with you.
"That's not what I would call the world's biggest problem!" This is what's going through your head right now.
Well, sure, it would be refreshing for about a week or two, but
then it would definitely start getting really boring and predictable.
You would soon lose respect for these people for being so needy. Now imagine a full year of that, from everyone.
Then imagine it for the 20-odd years of a females' life,
and you have a recipe for a real pertinent issue.
Remember the last time a beggar asked you for cash? How did you feel about it?
Bad right? Of course. How
come though? Well, it's because it's really clear what they want from you. So any attempt at chit-chat before the inevitable request for money is
excruciating.
Another issue is that we receive nothing in return for our cash. On the other hand,
I'm pretty sure you can remember
almost every single beggar you came across that was either:
- They were carefree and laughing.
- Making people laugh.
- Doing any kind of performance art.
I can almost guarantee that the 'value-giving' guys make much
larger sums of money than the 'value-taking' ones. This just goes to show
that everyone has something to offer. Everyone.
Well what does this have to do with women?
Well,
when it comes to hot women, us guys tend to behave the exact same way.
Here's why:
Our intentions are completely obvious all the time.
Chicks are super-aware that
every guy wants to get in her pants. Most guys just want to meet a girl and
take the validation and the sex without offering anything
of real value to the woman first (drinks have no real value to women).
This is a recipe for disaster. What about trying this out:
Treat her like a sister, brother or best friend. No special treatment or ass-kissing.
So first of all, when approaching women, don't make it obvious right
away that you want to sleep with them. Treat her as if she's a guy. So no staring at her ass, offering to buy her
drinks or showing off in any way. Be comfortable just sharing funny stories and meeting her friends etc. Be a social giver. Tell stories/jokes and take girls to the dance floor. Then, you can tell if your girl is becoming attracted to you
if she starts asking questions about your life, playing with her hair or bragging at all.
This is the time when you start to decide if you would still like to sleep with her. If the answer is yes, then go for it. This is when you do all the things you wanted to right away. Buy her a drink, tell her
she's hot, kiss her etc. Hot women want to earn our affection, most people don't know that.
Everyone does in fact.
We don't appreciate the things we don't work for. So why not help her out and make her work for you a little bit. If you try these things out I
guarantee you that your dating life will become super-fulfilling
Congratulations! The mystery of women is gone.
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